Yet, there's a perception that overseas adoptees are less likely to have special needs than someone stuck in foster care at a local CAS, says Grand, at the University of Guelph. The challenge is immense, and it's nation-wide. Every province and territory needs to do better on adoption, Grand says. But the system's troubles run deeper than policy gaps, a chaotic structure, poor planning and lack of money. Attitudes on adoption need changing. He's eight years old and has been in and out of five foster homes.
The mother's a decent sort, she tries her best, but she's all screwed up. She's attached to the kid, he really likes her, but he couldn't live with her. For several reasons: Number one, the kid's seeing the mother, therefore he will never attach to an adoptive family. That is not true. Two, the kid has had five caretakers, therefore he could never bond again.
Not true. The kid is eight — too old — nobody wants him. Not true, not true, not true. And those beliefs are the major barrier to adoption. In this view, older kids are considered virtually unadoptable, so their best option is to remain in foster care. It's been debunked, but it still prevents people from making the right decision. It dominates not just social workers but psychologists, judges, and — unfortunately — the community at large.
Frontline workers tend to be young, inexperienced, and indifferent to adoption, says Scarth. They only see adopted kids when a placement has broken down and the children are back in care. Harried child protection staff concentrate on getting kids into safe foster homes and often look no further, Scarth says. I just worried about making sure they didn't go back home.
Fix is trying to change that with new training for frontline workers. You also need to see stuff that works. Good foster care can provide a firm base, he says, but a foster child remains much more at risk of being set adrift than the same kid adopted by the same family.
Adoption is a lifelong commitment while foster parenting is like a job. People retire, or leave for other employment opportunities.
Marital problems and divorce can end fostering. And people quit for health reasons. Then their foster kids are scattered. More than a third of Ontario's crown wards have been through three or more foster homes, according to a review examining a large cross-section of these children.
And 43 per cent have had three or more case workers. Often they were put in foster care and then sent back home, to their birth families, only to wind up in a different foster home a few months later. Even the best foster care ends when kids "age out'' of the system. Some children can't attach to a new family — those sharing a deep and secure bond with their birth mom have particular difficulty.
Daniel's case is more difficult than most. His bitterness runs deep after being abandoned in favour of a younger sibling. And there's a risk he'll lash out at smaller kids.
That's why he's at Woodview Children's Centre, in Burlington, rather than in foster care. But finding the right adoptive parent could be his salvation, says Doug Jackson, a youth worker at the centre where children learn anger management. Other youngsters here are older than Daniel and he hasn't had any incidents. Very affectionate. He wants to please,'' Jackson says. As if to illustrate that point, the 8-year-old brags about the chores he does around the centre.
The ideal adoptive home would be one where Daniel is an only child, with parents able to give him a great deal of attention and set firm limits, says Jackson. Daniel has suffered a huge loss, and that can cause problems, he says. He tries. I think there's hope. Stakes are high. Daniel remains a child at risk. Daniel is "a victim of the system,'' she says. If he had been made available for adoption sooner, at a younger age, he would have had better odds of finding the right adoptive home.
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